Reality check #1: Be prepared to sweat more than you thought humanly possible.
We didn't have to negotiate our way around the tuks, because we hired a driver for our stay before we left Munich. A guide and driver promptly met us and gave us marigold leis and bottles of water. That was a much easier way to soothe our jet lag.
Before I left I was constantly told the same words of wisdom about India, 'You either love it or you hate it', and 'Make sure you check your water bottle to make sure it is sealed and hasn't been refilled'.
Reality check # 2: Forgo any prior knowledge of what is safe and don't tell your Mom about it until you get home.
We were instantly struck at how odd it was driving into town, namely because the highways weren't highways like I know them. Instead any type of transportation was permitted, including animals, bicycles, and pedestrians. Safety was entirely different - often the cars would not have seat belts, seeing 4 or more people on a motorbike was considered the norm - and no one had a helmet on. Car seats for children and babies are nonexistent and they would often be riding on their parent's lap as they drove or sandwiched in and taking a nap to the gentle hum of the motor.
Everyone was very attentive to our every whim and everyone expected a tip as well. This is something else we had been warned about, however weren't entirely prepared for. You see when you convert money they don't often give you small bills, so it's easy to dole out very generous tips. Lesson learned - get small bills pronto!
We got acclimated to the noises and would peer out our window to the dusty street below. There was a small and colorful Hindu temple directly outside with a many visitors ringing a bell throughout the day. We heard the constant honking and from time to time cows mooing or dogs barking.
After resting up we decided to venture out. We had a 'park' in front of our hotel, although walking past was enough. We were armed with directions from the hotel and wandered into the middle of our neighborhood - Karol Bagh. As soon as we walked out the door the heat was absolutely stifling. I tried my best to not breathe in the humid air that was suddenly acrid as we passed open urinals on the street.
We left with a mission - to see the area, take some photos to send our parents, and to buy several bottles of water. The amount of attention we would receive was also a big surprise for us.
Our first day in India was intense. We were jet-lagged, tired of sweating, annoyed at getting heckled, and feeling immense guilt for having more than the average person.
Reality check #3: Be grateful for everything... education, family, food... - EVERYTHING.
Hi Emily,
ReplyDeleteI am now in Thailand but had a quick look at your blog and look forward to reading your stories when i get back in Munich (with a bigger computer screen ^^)
I like your subway dress and those pics are fabulous!
&Good luck moving
Oom
great images! I also travel a lot, so I'll have to keep tabs on your experiences. Very cool.
ReplyDeleteOom...
ReplyDeleteI hope you've had a fun time at home and get to eat a lot of yummy food! Hopefully you can bring some sun with you back to Munich.
passport in my pocket...
Thanks! I am glad you also get to travel so much - it's definitely not a bad way to live life. I can't wait to check out where you've been and where you're going!